choosing a guy

i had this conversation earlier with a fren... regarding choosing the right and the best person in life...

she'd married for one year and just divorced....

i cant find any lacking in her.... same goes with my other colleagues...
she's sort of the girl/ women every man ever dream of...
she's nice, very gentle and obedient, blalalalala.....

y divorced???
lemme keep it to myself.... pity her a lot...
she's not from semenanjung... travelled all the way, get her ass settled in this so called "bandar" muar to be with her spouse... unfortunately, things went wrong and she got no one close to her at all (i mean family/ relatives) except we all.... but nothing much we can really do to help...

and what did she said to me??? it's more like an advice from a sister to her beloved younger one...

" to choose a guy.... when u have few options in front...
choose the one that falls in love head over heels to you....
choose the one that really cares, who calls and text u no matter in what situation...
choose the one that answers your call and listen to you well....
choose the one that can be a good fren.... not a good boyfren.....
never choose a guy that from the very beginning u'r the one who do everything for him....
who left u alone when u cries... blablabla........


such a long advice that i cant really type it all here...
100% agree and ....
GIRLS!!!
if u'r looking for a guy, please get a guy who falls "HEAD OVER HEELs" in love with you ok!!!
so that later on in your future life, there's no such thing coming out from his mouth as... "sape yang terhegeh2 nakkan saya...??"

*** CHEERS!!!

and guys, please3....
when u say I LOVE U.... please prove it... please care about your loved one...
especially when she's feeling lonely and tell u soo... never let her goes thru all the pain and miseries alone... be extra loving and caring, and u wont regret it..... trust me!@!!!